The final guy we talked to is a 24- year old NYC based gay escort named Eric. Interpretations are key to sexual identification.” “Anonymity” Men like my participants are in the second population. “Regarding straight men that have sex with men, it is important to differentiate between two populations: (1) those who identify as gay or bisexual but tell other people that they are straight, and who are thus “closeted,” and (2) those who identify as straight and perceive their sexual identity in ways that run counter to what people think of as straightness. The study’s author, Tony Silva, shared with us in an exclusive interview his insight as to why men who call themselves straight or bi sometimes hook up with other men. The conversations we had as part of this piece follow a recent study conducted by a University of Oregon researcher who published article, Bud-Sex: Constructing Normative Masculinity Among Rural Straight Men That Have Sex with Men. Related: Bro job 101: Where to find the straight guys “I have to be discrete” I don’t give oral when I go to the shops. Just because I like getting s*cked off doesn’t mean I’m gay – not that there’s anything wrong with that. We wanted to know if Nelson considers himself gay, straight or bisexual. I never try to see who is on the other side of the wall because that adds to the excitement. We wanted to know what attracted him to glory holes. Since she won’t do it, I’ve turned to some of the shops. My wife hates giving oral and always has. Nelson* is a 37-year old self-described business man from the Tampa area who frequents various triple X shops dotted along the I-4 corridor. You often don't see who is on other end The glory of quick and fast I guess it’s a way of conning yourself into thinking whatever you want,” he shared. When you think about it, anyone could be on the other side. The booth is pitch black so you really can’t see through the hole. At least that’s how it was when I was there. Jimmy explained his theory on why glory holes are so popular with guys who consider themselves straight. But once they felt safe, they’d pop by few times a month.” “Married first timers, usually from the burbs, were the most jittery. He explained to us that some of these men wore baseball caps to shield their faces, fearing they’d be recognized by others. Ten or fifteen minutes later, they’d bolt right out and leave.” “It was easy to tell the closeted guys because they would rush in, pay their entry fee and run through the turnstile in a flash. If I had a dime for every fireman or cop that walked in there to quickly get their rocks off, I’d be rich.”ĭescribing the typical “straight” guy that frequented the Ram, he revealed: “I worked there for over 10-years and saw everything you can imagine. He shared the following with MV about the popularity of glory holes with straight and bi-men.
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Jimmy is a 60 something former employee of The Ram, an adult bookstore in Chicago that is home to a myriad of different booths containing various sized booths. But because I can’t see, I don’t know – and don’t care.
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For all I know, some hot chick is on the other end. Have I ever used them? Sure, a few times.
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Sometimes, I go into a booth, check out a video of whatever they’ve got on and relax.ĭo they have holes in some of those booths? Yeah. On my route, there are lots of shops out in the middle of nowhere. When you’re on the road, you get the lay of the land pretty fast.
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OK, now that we have that out of the way, let’s jump right in! Ever been to a glory hole? “It’s not gay if you don’t know”īrent*, a 42-year old married truck driver who transports products along Route 66 for a major chain store explained his motivations.
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Researchers have traced their beginnings back to the time of the ancient Egyptians, which have been recorded through hieroglyphs. Usually, these transactions are anonymous because the person placing their privates through the hole does not see who is on the other side.įYI: Glory holes are not a modern phenomenon. We also interviewed a former long term employee of “ The Ram” a popular adult bookstore in Chicago where guys on the DL frequent to get serviced anonymously.Īnd just in case you are reading this and don’t know what a glory hole is, here’s a 25-cent definition.Ī glory hole (aka gay glory hole) is a circular carve out in a piece of metal or wood whereby a man can stick his anatomy through a hole and be serviced by another person on the receiving end.